A look back & an invitation
Hello, my hearts. I was invited to write a guest post on Swords & Sapphics blog today! Here’s what I wrote for them.
I almost exclusively read audiobooks.
I’m just neurospicy enough that reading with my eyes takes an eternity. Turns out I was diagnosed with a visual processing disorder at the same time I was determined to be gifted—that was a long day of testing, I can tell you!—and my parents and teachers decided to only tell me about one. Guess which they chose.
Even with that impairment, I have always loved to read. Stories mean everything to me. I was the kid who woke up on a summer morning, picked up my book where I’d left it on the nightstand and read until my parents kicked me out of the house. Then I’d read outside, lying in the grass until it got dark. Then I’d read in bed until my parents made me turn off the lights.
Skip to my first years living in Los Angeles when my hours-each-way commute became unbearable and a dear friend suggested audiobooks. Wow! It was like winning some kind of lottery.
I almost exclusively read contemporary romance.
It was actually audiobooks that led me to romances. No matter what audiobook service I tried, I found myself turning to Penny Reid, Lauren Blakely, Abby Jimenez, Helen Hoang. My longest relationships have been with Joy Nash and Chris Brinkley, Andi Arndt and Sebastian York, Erin Mallon and Zachary Webber, my OG narrator rockstar Carly Robins. One long winter I listened to every Audible Original holiday romance on the roster. (By the time spring rolled around that year, we were locked down and I had a lot of free time on my hands. That’s what led me to write my debut novel Holland, My Heart. But that is another blog post entirely.)
There are lots of “diversify your reading” challenges out there.
I’ve participated in some very fun and productive writing challenges on social media, but I was looking for a reading challenge I could get into. I kept seeing challenges that had tasks like “read a nonfiction book” or “read a book written by a woman”. Seriously? I finally got fed up and developed my own Diversify Your Romance challenge.
Since January, I’ve been posting book recommendations in these categories.
Audiobook with BIPOC narrator
A library book (I'm terrible about this!)
By a trans author
By an Asian or Asian American author
Afrofuturism or Africanfuturism (I can't wait to talk about these!)
Disability rep
An FMC athlete
Retelling of non-western mythology
Set in another country
Muslim main character
FMC older than 50
By a South Asian author
A book in translation
By an First Nations, Native American, Indigenous or Aboriginal author
A monster romance (this will be my first!)
A biracial protagonist
A graphic novel
By a BIPOC author (this has taken on a whole new shape; see below)
Here are some highlights from the last 18 weeks.
Audiobook with a BIPOC narrator
One I read: Goal (St. Louis Sires, Book 1) by Alexandria House, narrated by Jakobi Diem & Nicole Small
One I wrote: I’m very proud of the narration of Holland, My Heart by Cindy Harden and Brian Rivera. When I reached out to Blue Nose Audio to hire narrators for my first novel, they worked diligently to help me cast Kai whose mother was Black and whose father was Samoan. Rivera identifies as Pacific Islander and did a beautiful job—many readers comment they love his timbre. Me, too!
One I plan to read: Highly Suspicious and Unfairly Cute by Talia Hibbert, narrated by Amina Koroma and Jonathan Andrew Hume
Afrofuturism and/or Africanfuturism
I committed to finding at least three Afrofuturist (or Africanfuturist) romance titles with the full faith that I cannot be the only person who wants to read this combination. Look what I found!
All three are series starters — in for a penny, in for a pound, I always say. Am I the kind of reader who buys the entire series before I’ve begun the first book? Yes. Yes, I am.
Noughts and Crosses (Noughts and Crosses, Book 1) by Malorie Blackman, narrated by Syan Blake, Paul Chequer
Song of Blood & Stone (Earthsinger Chronicles, Book 1) by L. Penelope, narrated by Allyson Johnson
Awaken the Dragon (Legion, Book 1) by A.C. Arthur, narrated by Leon Nixon
Disability Rep
I couldn’t limit myself to three books in this category, so I broke it down into three subcategories.
Chronic Illness Rep
Always Only You (Bergman Brothers, Book 2 — can be read as a standalone) by Chloe Liese, narrated by CJ Bloom & Nelson Hobbs
Love Flushed (All Access Series, Book 2) by Evie Mitchell, narrated by Teddy Hamilton & Savannah Gilmore
Kissing Kosher by Jean Meltzer, narrated by Dara Rosenberg
Mental Illness Rep
Beard in Mind (Winston Brothers, Volume 4) by Penny Reid, narrated by Angela Dawe & Chris Brinkley
Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell, narrated by Rebecca Lowman & Maxwell Caulfield
Weather Girl by Rachel Lynn Solomon, narrated by Sarah Mollo-Christensen
Sensory Impairment Rep
A Cruise Fling by Laura Brown, narrated by Kelli Tager
Make You Mine (Running in Circles, Book 1) by E.M. Lindsey, narrated by Zachary Zaba
Saved by the Boss (New York Billionaires, Book 2) by Olivia Hayle, narrated by Ava Blair & Mercer Boffey
Retelling of non-western mythology
Y'all. I needed help with this one. I could find lots of retellings of non-western mythology... but not with love stories and a happily ever after. I asked Bookstagram for recs. Here’s what I got back from friends!
From spacedragonshoard: Asiri and the Amaru by Natalia Hernandez is based on Peruvian mythology.
From emmalily5: The Stardust Thief is an Arabian Nights-centered story by Chelsea Abdullah. Also the Daughter of the Moon Goddess duology is Chinese mythology by Sue Lynn Tan.
From fsmeurinne:
Woven in Moonlight by Isabel Ibañez
Gods of Jade and Shadow by Silvia Moreno-Garcia
The Enchanted Hacienda by J.C. Cervantes
The Hummingbird’s Daughter by Luis Alberto Urrea
Song of the Last Kingdom Series by Amélie Wen Zhao
Sun of Blood and Ruin by Mariely Lares
FMC over 50
I’ll be 42 in October, and I’m proud of my age and my (seriously single) life so far. But for this challenge, I selfishly wanted to read about women older than I. (Remember in middle school when you wanted to read about teenagers? And when you were a teenager, you wanted to read about 20-somethings?) Alas and alack, it seems I was asking too much of Romancelandia when I wished for books with female main characters over 50. God bless Jasmine Guillory for ALWAYS understanding the assignment. After finding Royal Holiday, the best I could do was find romances with FMCs in their 40s.
54: Royal Holiday by Jasmine Guillory, narrated by Janina Edwards
47: Gray Hair Don't Care (Never Too Late, Book 1) by Karen Booth, narrated by Romy Nordlinger
“Over-40”: Sterling Brick by L.B. Dunbar, narrated by Stella Hunter & Patrick Zeller
The week that became a year.
The last week of the challenge was supposed to be three books by BIPOC authors. How does one narrow down all the amazing romance novels being written by Black, Indigenous, and people of color today? So, I decided to do what I did for Disability Rep only bigger. Starting in May, I am choosing romance books for each Heritage Month.
May: Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage Month
May: Jewish American Heritage Month
May: Mental Health Awareness Month
June: LGBTQ+ Pride Month
July: Disability Pride Month
September: Latinx Heritage Month
October: LGBTQ+ History Month
October: National Disability Employment Awareness Month
November: Native American History Month
February 2025: Black History Month
March 2025: Women's History Month
April 2025: Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention Month
April 2025: Arab American Heritage Month
This guest blog post isn’t just a look back, it’s an invitation.
Want to come on an adventure with me? And I'd love for you to join me for my Diversify Your Romance Challenge! Please tag Swords & Sapphics and me when you post any challenge tasks you complete. I can’t wait to hear what romance stories you’ll come up with in these categories.